How To Teach A Child To Speak

Assalamualaikum


ramai kawan-kawan (BFF especially) tau
anak a.k.u sorang tu..
pemalaihhh benor nak bercakap
huihhhhhhh......yang dia tau.

bila ibu panggil
dia jawab mudah je
arrrrgggghhhhhhh.....arghhhhhhhh...
sakit hati kannn....

tapi..action..
perfect!!

so semalam
masa a.k.u attend briefing pasal IDP
a.k.u tertangkap satu fakta...
'tangkap' ok....

kita ni..selalunya belajar melalui pelbagai cara....
dan dari tiga cara yang speaker tu bgtau
a.k.u rasa...
anak teruna a.k.u tu...dia belajar melalui melihat......
sbb ape yang kakak dia buat
semua dia ikot
exactly macam ape yang kak long buat...

so...
satu mentol terkeluar dari kepala a.k.u...
a.k.u nak ajar dia.....melalui penglihatan....
mmmm...
dan masa surf kat internet pasal ni...

tup tup..termasuk satu link
kat situ..seorang ibu risau anak dia tak bercakap..
a.k.u dengan kusyuk pun membaca..
dan a.k.u rasa...
a.k.u perlu banyak membaca lagik selepas ini
mmg sweet ok...
sekurang-kurangnya a.k.u tahu handle 'gap' a.k.u nieH
dan boleh membantu a.k.u kenali Fahim lagik...

FIRST ADVISE

"This is a very common concern of parents. My sister didn't talk until she was four. Then she just started talking like a normal four year old one day. She never stopped, unfortunately.

I know it can be frustrating, but if your little one understands everything you say, then I wouldn't worry about it. If there is no speech problem, as indicated by your doctor, then you will wake up one day and your child will be talking.

I second the reading advice. Reading to children is the best thing you can do to encourage speech. Interactive reading (i.e., asking your child to describe the pictures) will go a long way in encouraging a reluctant child to speak.

Good luck.

SECOND ADVISE

"Read to her and read to her often. She may not speak right away, but believe me she is retaining those words. She'll be able to say what she wants if it comes down to it. I suggest saying "mommy doesn't understand those noises, use your words" also my son LOVES flash cards. Make some common ones like fruits, animals, etc. And put a picture on it. Say the word as you show the pic. You can buy these at most stores"

 THIRD ADVISE

"My son said only 3 words (baba, mama & birdie!) until he was around 2-and-a-half. Then one day, out of the blue..."Mama....MAMA!...I want to go for a ride in the car...come on let's go! Clear as a bell....so try not to worry....your little one is taking it all in and saving it up for one day when you least expect it.

However, you may want to consider a both a hearing exam AND speech therapy evaluation if she doesn't start verbalizing in the next 3-6 months."

a.k.u dah boleh tersenyum sikit..
ari tu Fahim pernah pegi buat hearing test..
so far ok..
jadi bg a.k.u dia tak de masalah pendengaran
sbb a.k.u pernah baca
kadang-kadang budak tak boleh bercakap kalau ada masalah pendengaran...

bila a.k.u tanya Paed
Fahim ni autism ke
dia observed..
Paed kata bukan.."I don't think so that he is autistic"


so...now..
next action....
mmmmmm...

try mengajar Fahim melalui penglihatan...
a.k.u akan bg dia tgk notebook ari neiH..
sbb kalau a.k.u bg HP...
a.k.u akan kesian dengan HP ku
Fahim dapat HP macam benda tu ibu boleh beli 20 sen kat kedai runcit
padahal macam-macam ibu install kat HP nak bg Fahim belajar..
isk isk...
tapi sib baik Alieyah ada
dia gak lah yang belajar..
dan a.k.u tengok banyak improvement Alieyah..
dia boleh mengeja hanya dengan tengok aplication yang ibu install dalam HP...
ok lah tu dari tak de improvement kan

a.k.u rasa...
si Fahim ni gamoknya kena beli IPad kot..ha ha ha
En Suami.......nak request iPad untuk hadiah 'anniversary' pertunangan pada 3 April ni buleh? ha ha ha...